The effects of bullying I received in my later years about the things I wanted and knew were possible to attain, kept me from believing what I am living today. If you told me 2 years ago I would be on stage with millionaires on my right, millionaires on my left, and in front of a PACKED house of team members who have invested a minimum of $5,000 into their online business….

I would have said

“you are DANG CRAZY”

1) Who has $5k these days?
2) Who has the time to meet up to learn about internet marketing with me?
3) Why would I even be sitting next to millionaires?
4) Why would they want to listen to someone like me?
5) No way would it be in a nice theater but maybe at a school gym or rinky dink restaurant….

these WERE all roadblocks in my head. Roadblocks given to me by other people… People that should have cared about me… that should have seen my passion for something big but in turn it was always a negative bully fest.

Effects of Bullying and Your Value

You have value. I have value. Value is when you put time and energy into “things” that people want and THEY put a price on it. One of the effects of bullying or having been bullied in your life is not believing you have value.

I'm still the same person that back in 2010 that was making $5k/month on his side internet businesses.

I'm still the same person who was about to QUIT because I was getting tired of no one in my teams making serious money, or just more than me.

I'm still the same person who thought making $12k in back to back months was dang near impossible for a part timer marketer.

I'm still the same person who thought making a million dollars in 18 months is in fairy tales books.

I'm still the same person….

Just the MIND was shifted. It shifted from people telling me I couldn't do it…

You know, the effects of bullying kick in early… for everyone. For most it starts in school and many see it happening around them to others they care about such as friends, family or colleagues. It really changes how you think… how you look at your life… how you take action.

 I woke up and believed that anyone can achieve greatness if they just follow through and run with those more successful than themselves.


You are bigger than you think you are.

Don't let the bullies in school tell you… you are not
Don't let the Facebook bullies tell you… you are not
Don't let your so called friends tell you… that you are WORTH LESS….

Don't even let family get in your way!

Dive into what you can do and develop the skills necessary to reach your goals.


 Here is what I say. Do what you believe in and take action… don't just say but do and if you were not around during my struggles, don't expect to be around during my success.

Your mind is your filter. Choose to have a good filter and how you react to people's bashing against you. Whatever that may be. Just know that you can change around the effects of bullying that were done to you.




<<<<<<<< SHIFT YOUR MIND >>>>>>>>>>


Engineering Your Success,
Lawrence Tam

Ps. will you be guaranteed make money and succeed in life… ummm no… the only thing in life that is 100% is death and taxes.

Put yourself out there and LEARN to EARN more. All of the top earners take the time to educate themselves and building value. It's not for everyone why???

some people just straight up hate money and feel the saying “money is the root of all evil”. Sad to say but it's true… You can teach that person the exact method to how we all generated millions in our industry and t hey would STILL reject it internally.

don't let society, friends, coworkers, bosses dictate what YOU ARE WORTH.

Figure out where you are in life, what role you want to play in your own success story, and just go all OUT and make it happen.

This is what I did and now my kids get to have a full time dad vs a full time mechanical engineer.

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Lawrence Tam

Funny dude who grew up in Houston, and retired from Mechanical Engineering at the age of 33. Has 3 kiddos and happily married and marketing full time since 2012. Learn how to take control of your life and health through a simple challenge to keep you healthier one day at a time - Click Here to Learn More.


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