When I was a kid I remember how much influence my Dad had on our family. When he walked through the door at night things changed. The energy in the room changed immediately, we all stood a little taller, we paid close attention to his mood and behavior and we tried a little harder to get along with each other. When my boys came along I had a hard time recognizing I had that same influence, but according to my sons it was there. My point is "Leader's INFLUENCE."  Regardless of the situa...